patampal
To reveal s.t.; make s.o. else the pretext for saying s.t., expose, disclose.
When she has a desire she does not reveal it to her companions; it is as if she hides it in her heart.
When you ask, don’t disclose your companion (the one who told you to ask).
She makes her companion the pretext even though she is the one who wants it (when she asks for s.t.).